I got some wedding invitations this month. Three of my friend hold their party this week. Actually, I prefer to come to the wedding ceremony than the party, because there’ll be so many emotions during and after the process of ‘akad nikah’.I couldn’t hold my tears when I saw the bride and groom doing ‘sungkeman’, that was so touching…🙂
And one of my friend that invited me is the one that proposed me last year.🙂
Yea… Remembering last year… He expressed his willing about marrying me. It gave me a hard time to concider, because we were just good friend …then I decided to accept him. Fyi, I have a commitment, that I wouldn’t do dating (insya Allah I’m trying to keep istiqomah).
After saying yes… I waited his next action for several weeks, but there was nothing. Until one day he sent me a message, he said that he wasn’t ready yet to build a family with me because of his work. He wanted to focus on his job first… (Actually I didn’t get it…)
Ok.. I was okay, I tried to take it.
Few months ago I heard that he has engaged with a girl…so, I got the point that his reason in changing his mind was just a ‘lie’… Ok, I’m fine.
In several days later he’ll marry his fiancee, and as a friend I think I’ll come to cheer him. And as a moslem I must attend the invitation… I decided to see the wedding ceremony… and hold my tear???
But… Suddenly somebody come to me and asked “lo gak malu datang ke nikahannya dia??”
Mmm…should I feeling ashamed? Or should I just come to the party, congrate him and dissappear? Or else??
Big NO, I mean it’s ok, that wouldn’t be embarassing, he is my friend, one of the best ever….I think I’m fine!
Ahh…I have no idea… -_-