I got some wedding invitations this month. Three of my friend hold their party this week. Actually, I prefer to come to the wedding ceremony than the party, because there’ll be so many emotions during and after the process of ‘akad nikah’.I couldn’t hold my tears when I saw the bride and groom doing ‘sungkeman’, that was so touching… 
And one of my friend that invited me is the one that proposed me last year.
Yea… Remembering last year… He expressed his willing about marrying me. It gave me a hard time to concider, because we were just good friend …then I decided to accept him. Fyi, I have a commitment, that I wouldn’t do dating (insya Allah I’m trying to keep istiqomah).
After saying yes… I waited his next action for several weeks, but there was nothing. Until one day he sent me a message, he said that he wasn’t ready yet to build a family with me because of his work. He wanted to focus on his job first… (Actually I didn’t get it…)
Ok.. I was okay, I tried to take it.
Few months ago I heard that he has engaged with a girl…so, I got the point that his reason in changing his mind was just a ‘lie’… Ok, I’m fine.
In several days later he’ll marry his fiancee, and as a friend I think I’ll come to cheer him. And as a moslem I must attend the invitation… I decided to see the wedding ceremony… and hold my tear???
But… Suddenly somebody come to me and asked “lo gak malu datang ke nikahannya dia??”
Mmm…should I feeling ashamed? Or should I just come to the party, congrate him and dissappear? Or else??
Big NO, I mean it’s ok, that wouldn’t be embarassing, he is my friend, one of the best ever….I think I’m fine!
Ahh…I have no idea… -_-
zheeahjha
/ November 15, 2009kalo diundang pake undangan resmi plus nama kita yang ditulis diundangan mah dateng aja.kalo enggak mah gak usah mba..
Kakaakin
/ November 15, 2009Hmm… kemarin dia mau ngantar undangan ke rumahku, tapi dia lupa alamat rumahku…(plis deh…)
Trus kuminta dikirim lewat sms aja undangannya… whateverlah…
willyafurqan
/ November 15, 2009hello mbak,,,
good night…
Kakaakin
/ November 15, 2009ya…Will… hello juga…
willyafurqan
/ November 15, 2009maybe u should come as a friend…
hhahahahahah……
if i were u, i might not come…
Kakaakin
/ November 15, 2009Why do you think you might not come?
willyafurqan
/ November 16, 2009weellll…
it only depends on how you feel about what had happened last time…
if you WERE that pissed, very2 pissed, and again if I were U, i might not be there…
hhahhahahah…
but if you still think him as a good friend,, then i don’t see why you shouldn’t come…
if it’s not that bad,,, anndd ummm…. yeaahh…
maybe i’ll come. IF I WERE YOU..
Kakaakin
/ November 16, 2009Hehehe… thanks Will…
And I realize that I’m not that pissed… not really…
mamah aline
/ November 16, 2009berjiwa besar untuk datang ke pesta perkawinannya mantan, salut deh sis
kakaakin
/ November 16, 2009Bukan mantan sih… Karna gak pernah ada perubahan status dari ‘teman’ ke yg lainnya…
Tp mungkin emang perlu brbesar hati ya…
alamendah
/ November 16, 2009Saya aja beberapa kali datang ke pernikahan mantan..
willyafurqan
/ November 16, 2009hhahahah…
smangat kawa…
sampai bbrapa kali yah???/
kakaakin
/ November 16, 2009Hehe… Berbesar hati, kata mamah aline…
ikiakukok
/ November 16, 2009rupanya anda orang yang sangat tabah ya? dan sedikit nggak tahu malu
saya rasa tindakan anda sudah bener kok, tapi diundang kan? kalo nggak diundang ya jadinya tamu tak diundang dong.
jadi pingin lihat ekspresi wajahnya saat kamu salaman dan memberi ucapan selamat bagi mereka.
bagi ex-nya kakaakin selamat menempuh hidup baru ya.
kakaakin
/ November 16, 2009bukan hanya sangat tabah dan sedikit nggak tahu malu mas
, saya tambahin : agak norak, kadang memang malu2in, tapi tetep baik hati dan tidak sombong, cuma jarang menabung… 
Insya Allah dateng… sekalian mbandingin… cantikan mana, saya atau tuh cewek… hahahaha… *gedubrakkkk*
dian
/ November 16, 2009Aku tahu, Akin Ssi pasti datang….강해 져라!!!
kakaakin
/ November 16, 2009Insya Allah datang…
고마워요…
komuter
/ November 16, 2009kalau diundang, datang saja tidak perlu merasa malu.
tidak ada yang perlu dimaluin.
tapi tidak usah pula memaksakan diri, kalau ada halangan ya tidak usah datang…..
.
kalau kata gusdur “gitu aja kok repot”
kakaakin
/ November 16, 2009Benerrr… Gitu aja kok repot…
*senyum manis*
Salam kenal… makasih udah berkunjung…
alisnaik
/ November 17, 2009is it fiction or fact ?? ow.. so touching, sister
. i have no idea about how to comment in this post, because i don’t have any experience about love
kakaakin
/ November 18, 2009Hehe… touching???
alisnaik
/ November 19, 2009PEMBUKAAN:
selamat pagi, kakaakin yang semakin ungu dan cerah
ISI:
yeach. menyentuh. mengharubiru.
sampai seluruh air yang ada ditubuhku ikut keluar. mulai dari air mata, air hidung, air mulut, air kulir, dan air kenc**g.
yehehehe
PENUTUP:
terima kasih dan mohon maaf
Kakaakin
/ November 19, 2009Roel…
MAN artinya laki-laki, WOMAN artinya perempuan (Tulisan di depan toilet umum)…
Tapi, disini bukan toilet umum loh…
Dimaafkan…
sunflo
/ November 17, 2009sis…postingannya pake boso linggis yaaa…*.^
sukses ajah dech!
kakaakin
/ November 18, 2009ngikut2 si bocahbancar nih…
Pengennya sih pake bahasa Korea, tapi belom bisa…
sedjatee
/ November 19, 2009you have no idea..???
apalagi aku… hehehe….
sedj
Kakaakin
/ November 19, 2009Alhamdulillah sekarang idenya udah ada, Mas…
kawanlama95
/ November 19, 2009I’m proud of you, hopefully get the best.
and the person had been waiting for you
Kakaakin
/ November 20, 2009Amiin…
Thanks, Bro…
luvaholic9itz
/ November 19, 2009oh my kodok
happening egen, dilema kah yang seperti ini. surely NOT,
dateng kakak..!! jangan enggak..!!!
gimana cerita pestanya, belum posting yak..??
*nunggu*
Kakaakin
/ November 20, 2009Udah dateng kok…
Gara2 koneksi jelek nih, jd blom sempet posting….